There are countless firsts in a person’s life. Likewise in your sex life. In the series, My First Time, women describe their first time, about kissing another woman, a threesome, sex under the influence. One recounts the first time she used a sex toy while having sex with a man.
Sex toys are not just for solo use
Although it is often thought that vibrators and other sex toys are only suitable for solo sex, I would like to disprove that. Of course, a vibrator is a wonderful option for penetration and stimulation if you’re single and not in the mood for a one-night stand. But sex toys aren’t just for solo sessions and shouldn’t be used in secret without your partner’s knowledge. Sex toys can equally be used by two. And there is an increasing number of sex toys for couples on the market.
The first time I used a sex toy while having sex with a man
We were still teenagers when we first met, we experimented regularly. When I got my first vibrator, he was just as curious as I was. The first time I showed it to him, he was a little intimidated by the size, but it quickly gave way to enthusiasm. It was a special experience, he was on his knees and fully clothed between my legs while I lay naked in bed. Using some lube, he pushed the nice big vibrator into me.
I enjoyed his dominance because he was in control
I really enjoyed the size and the vibrations of the vibrator, I enjoyed his dominance at least as much, it was exciting that he was in control. At the same time, he thought it was super exciting to see it disappear inside me and thus make me happy in that way. Since then we have repeated this kind of play many times, also with other sex toys, so I can say that it was a great success. Sending videos or voice messages while masturbating with such a sex toy is also an exciting way to arouse the other person. Having sex with a man while using sex toys has enriched my sex life.
Benefits of using sex toys with a partner
Using sex toys with your partner can feel a little awkward, but you should at least give it a try. You may discover a whole new world, or you may find that it is not for you.
You enjoy other sensations
A vibrating vibrator simply feels different than a penis, and the sensation is delightful. Like a cock ring, sex feels different to him, even to you, if it’s vibrating.
Using sex toys while having sex with a man brings pleasure to both of you
If he penetrates you with a vibrator, then you are free to take his penis in your mouth or in your hands.
It is exciting
It is exciting to discover something new together. Using sex toys while having sex with a man is a fun way for both of you to improve your sex life. Maybe you’ll like it and decide to do it more often. It may also be that you don’t like it at all, but at least you still have a nice piece of sex toy for solo use.
Better communication for couples
Remarkable but true, research shows that couples who use sex toys together communicate better. For example, couples will be more willing to tell each other what they like and where the sensitive spot is. Also, couples who use sex toys together find it easier to talk about sex than couples who don’t.
Greater chance of orgasm for the woman
Many men know that most women do not come only from penetration. Therefore, clitoral stimulation is always a good idea, it can be with your fingers or a piece of sex toy. For example, you can use the fantastic Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation, which is an air pressure vibrator that gives you a wonderful, intense orgasm with small bursts of air pressure. Practical positions are the missionary with a pillow under the butt, where the man’s upper body remains upright, or doggy style.
Sex toys to use together
In fact, you can use almost any sex toy with your partner. Whether it’s a specially designed sex toy for couples or just a piece of sex toy for solo use, it doesn’t matter that much.
Couple vibrator
A duo vibrator can be used by all couples. The vibrator has a kind of flat C shape and is worn by the woman. There is a motor at both ends. The smallest part is inserted into the vagina and stimulates the G-spot. The thick part vibrates against the clitoris. The unique thing about this vibrator is that your partner can penetrate you while using it and he will also enjoy the vibrations.
The Satisfyer Double Joy is one of the most popular pairs of vibrators on the market. It also has an app that you can use to control the vibrator.
Vibrating cock ring
A vibrating cock ring is made of a soft material, such as silicone, that you can put around the penis. Your partner’s erection will last longer and be firmer, which is comfortable for both of you. In addition, a vibrating cock ring has a vibrator that will stimulate your clitoris. A good position to use this is where you are sitting on top of your partner.